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Doctors are not trained in how to talk to patients and as I
noted in one of my books we are hypnotic in a negative way. If you read the
information you get before treatment and it is all negative you have all the
side effects even when a placebo is given.
One of our sons showed me wordswordswords become
swordswordswords
I loved Erickson writing in a patient's chart and then leaving
the room and then the patient would peek at the chart and it said doing very
well and they did.
I love deceiving people into health like rub the skin with alcohol before
injection and tell kids it will numb their skin and it worked in a third of
the kids; helped a third and others would say it didn't work, but were much
more relaxed during the procedure
I could go on but will finish with kids who fell asleep being wheeled into
operating room because I told them they would go to sleep in the OR
Dr. Sidney Rosen’s book My Voice Will Go With You
about Erickson helped me to become a therapeutic story teller with my
patients. I also realized the power of the word by talking to people while
under anesthesia. People hear whether asleep, in coma or under anesthesia. I
could get them to stop bleeding, change heart rates and more. An example was
a patient who had a cardiac arrhythmia. The anesthesiologists by this time
knew how nuts I was. So he showed me the EKG and said fix it. I started to
talk to the patient about being on a swing, nice steady rhythm, up and back
and his heart beat returned to a normal rhythm. Not to mention having
someone have a cardiac arrest and say, Bill, it's not your time yet.
Come on back. And have the heart beat return and the man survives.
I also used distraction and humor a great deal. They are
hypnotic too. Imagine being wheeled into the O.R. and saying to your
surgeon, "Thank God all these wonderful people are taking care of me"
and the surgeon leans over and says, "I know these people they
are not wonderful and everybody laughs! Or playing music in the
operating room and having Frank Sinatra sing, All of me. Why
not play All of me or Amazing Grace preceding a
serious procedure?
Last but not least I do a lot of work with dreams, drawings and
patient’s images and beliefs. So can give an injection and say your hair
will fall out and 30% do and tell people you have a hair growing pill to
avoid hair loss from chemotherapy and of course 30% do not lose their hair.
If doctors knew how to talk to people they would be far more therapeutic
because they would include benefits of treatment rather than side effects
and possible problems they could be sued for.
Peace,
Bernie
BRIEF BIOGRAPHY of BERNARD S. SIEGEL, MD
Dr. Siegel, who prefers to be called Bernie, not Dr. Siegel, was born
in Brooklyn, NY. He attended Colgate University and Cornell University
Medical College. He holds membership in two scholastic honor societies, Phi
Beta Kappa and Alpha Omega Alpha and graduated with honors. His surgical
training took place at Yale New Haven Hospital, West Haven Veteran’s
Hospital and the Children’s Hospital of Pittsburgh. He retired from the
practice of general and pediatric surgery in 1989 to speak to patients and
their caregivers.
In 1978 he originated Exceptional Cancer Patients, a specific form of
individual and group therapy utilizing patients’ drawings, dreams, images
and feelings. ECaP is based on “carefrontation,” a safe, loving therapeutic
confrontation, which facilitates personal lifestyle changes, personal
empowerment and healing of the individual’s life. The physical, spiritual
and psychological benefits which followed led to his desire to make everyone
aware of his or her healing potential. He realized exceptional behavior is
what we are all capable of.
Bernie and his wife and coworker, Bobbie live in a suburb of New Haven,
Connecticut. They have five children and eight grandchildren. Bernie and
Bobbie have co-authored their children, books and articles. Their home with
its many children, pets and interests resembled a cross between a family art
gallery, museum, zoo and automobile repair shop. It still resembles these
things, although the children are trying to improve its appearance in order
to avoid embarrassment.
In 1986 his first book, Love. Medicine & Miracles was published. This
event redirected his life. In 1989 Peace, Love & Healing and
in 1993 How to Live Between Office Visits followed.
He is currently working on other books with the goal of humanizing medical
education and medical care, as well as, empowering patients and teaching
survival behavior to enhance immune system competency. Bernie’s realization
that we all need help dealing with the difficulties of life, not just the
physical ones, led to Bernie writing his fourth book in 1998
Prescriptions for Living. It helps people to become aware of the
eternal truths and wisdom of the sages through Bernie’s stories and insights
rather than wait a personal disaster. He wants to help people fix their
lives before they are broken, and thus not have to become strong at the
broken places. Published in 2003 is Help Me to Heal and
365 Prescriptions for The Soul and in 2004 a children’s book,
Smudge Bunny. Others are in the works.
Woody Allen once said, “If I had one wish it would be to be somebody
else.” Bernie’s wish was to be a few inches taller. His work has been such a
growth experience that he is now a few inches taller. His prediction is that
in the next decade the role of consciousness, spirituality, non-local
healing, body memory and heart energy will all be explored as scientific
subjects.
For many, Bernie needs no introduction. He has touched many lives all
over our planet. In 1978 he began talking about patient empowerment and the
choice to live fully and die in peace. As a physician, who has cared for and
counseled innumerable people whose mortality has been threatened by an
illness, Bernie embraces a philosophy of living and dying that stands at the
forefront of the medical ethics and spiritual issues our society grapples
with today. He continues to assist in the breaking of new ground in the
field of healing and personally struggling to live the message of kindness
and love. Bernie and Bobbie travel extensively to share his experience and
techniques.
Note from Dr. Anne:
Bernie is part of the Honorary IMDHA Board of Directors and we
thank him for all that he has done to promote complimentary care in
medicine. He is in my opinion one of the great leaders in changing how we
treat patients and ourselves.
Be sure to visit Bernie’s great web site
for books, tapes/CDs and much more. Included on this site which is of
interest to Hypnotists are guided imagery hypnotic tapes/CDs to prepare for
medical treatments
www.ecap-online.org
To order
My Voice Will Go With You or CDs by Bernie see
www.infinityinst.com or page 11 of this issue of Subconsciously
Speaking.
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